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	<title>Comments on: What Waits For Us At the End of the Journey</title>
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		<title>By: yogamum</title>
		<link>http://bloglily.com/2008/04/01/what-waits-for-us-at-the-end-of-the-journey/#comment-21496</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 03:16:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How absolutely wonderful.  Maybe I will send this post to my husband!  I actually have a writing space in an extra bedroom upstairs, but it&#039;s the designated time and the feeling of being unable to &quot;unplug&quot; from family concerns that holds me back.  Mostly it&#039;s my own doing...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How absolutely wonderful.  Maybe I will send this post to my husband!  I actually have a writing space in an extra bedroom upstairs, but it&#8217;s the designated time and the feeling of being unable to &#8220;unplug&#8221; from family concerns that holds me back.  Mostly it&#8217;s my own doing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Emily Barton</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Emily Barton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 20:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve always suspected that you have a wonderful, wonderful husband, but this clinches it. My problem would be that after setting up such a space for me, my own dear husband would call me from upstairs (even during my &quot;office hours&quot;) to ask me (after a preface of &quot;I know I&#039;m not supposed to bother you, but this is really important&quot;) if I know where the Hebrew Exegesis paper he wrote three years ago is. So, I&#039;m thinking what I need is a place of my own with no telephone and no cell phone reception. Maybe one day...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always suspected that you have a wonderful, wonderful husband, but this clinches it. My problem would be that after setting up such a space for me, my own dear husband would call me from upstairs (even during my &#8220;office hours&#8221;) to ask me (after a preface of &#8220;I know I&#8217;m not supposed to bother you, but this is really important&#8221;) if I know where the Hebrew Exegesis paper he wrote three years ago is. So, I&#8217;m thinking what I need is a place of my own with no telephone and no cell phone reception. Maybe one day&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bloglily</title>
		<link>http://bloglily.com/2008/04/01/what-waits-for-us-at-the-end-of-the-journey/#comment-21488</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[bloglily]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 16:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Danielle,  He&#039;s a good guy.  Sometimes he just hits it out of the park.  Without breaking a single window in the process.  

Thanks Susan.  That desk is a lot messier now.  Which is a relief. 

Hello Becky -- one of the things in that room is a really large stack of paper with a post-it note on it that says, &quot;send to Becky.&quot;  Believe me, I haven&#039;t forgotten about your lovely request for a copy of my ms.  xo

You know, Charlotte, so am I!  Plus, all those cups of tea.  And that clean fridge to put my milk in.  

Deborah,  You are, Herewith, an Honorary Member of Whatever We Decide to Call the Retreat Place Thing.  (places wreath of daisies on Deborah&#039;s head)


Nova, I would like to mention the weather, in case you are sway-able.  Beautiful.  Smells like jasmine.  Clear and clean in the morning.  View of the bay.  You can see, you know, forever from here.  

Yes indeed Jade.  And I also don&#039;t get weird, periodic &quot;headaches&quot; which force me to withdraw from the world, either.  My favorite thing (well, I have many favorite things) about Leonard and Virginia is that whenever she handed him a ms to read he&#039;d say, &quot;You&#039;ve done it again, Virginia.&quot;  Even if he didn&#039;t actually think she had.  My own husband has been known to say things like, &quot;Man.  This sounds like.... a real book.&quot;  Which is a nicer compliment than it actually sounds at first.  Sometimes just being plausible is good enough.

 
RR--Oh, I know the panic.  But I feel it in pretty much any place I go to write, if I let myself.  I try not to see writing as self-indulgent or taking away from others.  It&#039;s just the thing I do.  A job sort of.  A really good job, in addition to the other really good job I have as a lawyer.  And the other really good job I have as a mom.   Many people work more than one job.  And it&#039;s good I think to have a different site for each of your jobs.

Dear Cam.  Yes indeed.  I am thinking, by the way, about that photo challenge.  

Sylvia,  there is indeed a very romantic thing about a person who loves you enough to schlep your stuff down a flight of stairs to make you happy.  

Dark Orpheus,  Believe me, I plan to mention that to him when he returns from the trip he&#039;s on this week.  

Dear Kate,  I&#039;m hoping that what comes of that room will be a LOT of writing!  Fabulous would be good also.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Danielle,  He&#8217;s a good guy.  Sometimes he just hits it out of the park.  Without breaking a single window in the process.  </p>
<p>Thanks Susan.  That desk is a lot messier now.  Which is a relief. </p>
<p>Hello Becky &#8212; one of the things in that room is a really large stack of paper with a post-it note on it that says, &#8220;send to Becky.&#8221;  Believe me, I haven&#8217;t forgotten about your lovely request for a copy of my ms.  xo</p>
<p>You know, Charlotte, so am I!  Plus, all those cups of tea.  And that clean fridge to put my milk in.  </p>
<p>Deborah,  You are, Herewith, an Honorary Member of Whatever We Decide to Call the Retreat Place Thing.  (places wreath of daisies on Deborah&#8217;s head)</p>
<p>Nova, I would like to mention the weather, in case you are sway-able.  Beautiful.  Smells like jasmine.  Clear and clean in the morning.  View of the bay.  You can see, you know, forever from here.  </p>
<p>Yes indeed Jade.  And I also don&#8217;t get weird, periodic &#8220;headaches&#8221; which force me to withdraw from the world, either.  My favorite thing (well, I have many favorite things) about Leonard and Virginia is that whenever she handed him a ms to read he&#8217;d say, &#8220;You&#8217;ve done it again, Virginia.&#8221;  Even if he didn&#8217;t actually think she had.  My own husband has been known to say things like, &#8220;Man.  This sounds like&#8230;. a real book.&#8221;  Which is a nicer compliment than it actually sounds at first.  Sometimes just being plausible is good enough.</p>
<p>RR&#8211;Oh, I know the panic.  But I feel it in pretty much any place I go to write, if I let myself.  I try not to see writing as self-indulgent or taking away from others.  It&#8217;s just the thing I do.  A job sort of.  A really good job, in addition to the other really good job I have as a lawyer.  And the other really good job I have as a mom.   Many people work more than one job.  And it&#8217;s good I think to have a different site for each of your jobs.</p>
<p>Dear Cam.  Yes indeed.  I am thinking, by the way, about that photo challenge.  </p>
<p>Sylvia,  there is indeed a very romantic thing about a person who loves you enough to schlep your stuff down a flight of stairs to make you happy.  </p>
<p>Dark Orpheus,  Believe me, I plan to mention that to him when he returns from the trip he&#8217;s on this week.  </p>
<p>Dear Kate,  I&#8217;m hoping that what comes of that room will be a LOT of writing!  Fabulous would be good also.</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 15:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a nice husband!  A room of your own!  And a view, too.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a nice husband!  A room of your own!  And a view, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 02:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hurrah, a writing room of your own!  Or, at the very least, space to dream in, which is equally important to let the muse in.  What a wonderful husband you have - I love the &quot;he doesn&#039;t always have the words but he knows what to do&quot; comment.  I hope this helps with your desire to change, that this is what needed to change.  Welcome to your room, and I hope you grow to love it and use it well.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hurrah, a writing room of your own!  Or, at the very least, space to dream in, which is equally important to let the muse in.  What a wonderful husband you have &#8211; I love the &#8220;he doesn&#8217;t always have the words but he knows what to do&#8221; comment.  I hope this helps with your desire to change, that this is what needed to change.  Welcome to your room, and I hope you grow to love it and use it well.</p>
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		<title>By: musingsfromthesofa</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 00:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh how lovely! Your own space. I hope it gives you inspiration, and that you can find your way to your soul again.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh how lovely! Your own space. I hope it gives you inspiration, and that you can find your way to your soul again.</p>
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		<title>By: charlotteotter</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[charlotteotter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 16:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote a comment earlier today, but it hasn&#039;t turned up. Anyway, what I said was what a lovely husband you have and how thrilling to have a designated writing space with designated writing time! I look forward to the lovely things that will emerge.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote a comment earlier today, but it hasn&#8217;t turned up. Anyway, what I said was what a lovely husband you have and how thrilling to have a designated writing space with designated writing time! I look forward to the lovely things that will emerge.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Deborah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 13:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Lily!  And welcome back.  And congratulations on your foresight to marry that practical Swede!

Last January I spent a week in Berkeley --for several reasons, but one was to try to get in a bit closer touch with my writerly self.  How lovely it would have been to have a writers&#039; retreat to rent.  Will an east bay wanna-be from Minnesota be allowed?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Lily!  And welcome back.  And congratulations on your foresight to marry that practical Swede!</p>
<p>Last January I spent a week in Berkeley &#8211;for several reasons, but one was to try to get in a bit closer touch with my writerly self.  How lovely it would have been to have a writers&#8217; retreat to rent.  Will an east bay wanna-be from Minnesota be allowed?</p>
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		<title>By: nova</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[nova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 12:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s truly beautiful! I&#039;m touched.

And, oh my, maybe you were actually a little serious about one day opening up your room to rent to other writers as you commented on my blog... All I&#039;ll say is I wish I lived in Berkeley, I really do. The place sounds perfect. 

Happy writing in your new space!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s truly beautiful! I&#8217;m touched.</p>
<p>And, oh my, maybe you were actually a little serious about one day opening up your room to rent to other writers as you commented on my blog&#8230; All I&#8217;ll say is I wish I lived in Berkeley, I really do. The place sounds perfect. </p>
<p>Happy writing in your new space!</p>
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		<title>By: jadepark</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jadepark]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 04:56:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So awesome.  You have a room of your own. :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So awesome.  You have a room of your own. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: ravenous reader</title>
		<link>http://bloglily.com/2008/04/01/what-waits-for-us-at-the-end-of-the-journey/#comment-21473</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:37:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I must say, tears came to my eyes when reading this post.  Such a lovely, considerate man you&#039;ve married :)  

Closely following the tears, however, was a bit of a panic, thinking about how responsbile I&#039;d feel to really produce something wonderful in this lovely room of my own.  But that&#039;s just me all over :)

I do think a woman&#039;s home always poses many distractions, whether it&#039;s occupied with children or not, for there are always other things calling for our attention.  And so the ability to pop downstairs into a room of your own, effectively putting your hands to your ears and shushing all those noisy things clamoring for your attention, will be a wonderful thing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must say, tears came to my eyes when reading this post.  Such a lovely, considerate man you&#8217;ve married <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>Closely following the tears, however, was a bit of a panic, thinking about how responsbile I&#8217;d feel to really produce something wonderful in this lovely room of my own.  But that&#8217;s just me all over <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I do think a woman&#8217;s home always poses many distractions, whether it&#8217;s occupied with children or not, for there are always other things calling for our attention.  And so the ability to pop downstairs into a room of your own, effectively putting your hands to your ears and shushing all those noisy things clamoring for your attention, will be a wonderful thing.</p>
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		<title>By: Cam</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a lovely welcome-home surprise.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a lovely welcome-home surprise.</p>
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		<title>By: Sylvia</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sylvia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow. Forget flowers and anniversaries---that&#039;s my kind of romance!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. Forget flowers and anniversaries&#8212;that&#8217;s my kind of romance!</p>
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		<title>By: Dark Orpheus</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dark Orpheus]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was smiling when I read this. Your husband is a beautiful man.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was smiling when I read this. Your husband is a beautiful man.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate S.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kate S.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lily, I felt positively weepy reading this post. How wonderful for you to have an actual room of your own for writing. I love that your husband recognized that you need this and made it happen. And I love that you&#039;ve made your commitment to your writing clear so that he could recognize it. Think of the fabulous writing that you will do at that table!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lily, I felt positively weepy reading this post. How wonderful for you to have an actual room of your own for writing. I love that your husband recognized that you need this and made it happen. And I love that you&#8217;ve made your commitment to your writing clear so that he could recognize it. Think of the fabulous writing that you will do at that table!</p>
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